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Is this what we wanted?

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It happens sometimes , when time flashes infront of our eyes.We stop for a moment and say is that what i wanted. That is exactly what happened to me couple of days ago. Since being little everyone of us had some ideas about what their furture is going to be like. In the environment where i live mostly all of us wanted to be doctors, so when the teacher at the elementary school asked every single of us "what do you want to be when you grow old?" and most of us would say "I want to be a doctor". but after years and discovering who we truly are, we knew that there is much more to our abilities , our likes and dislikes.However a few of us still can not figure things out , they are traped in their own minds,the fear of failing . Asking them selves :"if i try this , is it going to work?,am i going to fail?"but even so we skip that idea that we might achieve what we wanted.It is not a bad thing if we tried and even if we failed let that failure be out boo...

Control your Anger

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There is no one who doesn't feel anger in this world,don't tell me there is because those who doesn't or they seem to you that anger isn't an option for them ,they actually feel mad but they know how to control it .As a human we feel different emotions some of them are good such as love ,happiness,being respected .....etc and bad like sadness, anger, loneliness.. Here we are going to discuss this issue and seek forward to fix it or at least to work on it day by day until we get there ,feeling angry is good it means you still have emotions ,you care and you are still alive ,but not so good if you hurt others and especially yourself ,I am a human being and i won't deny that I didn't feel angry,in fact I feel a lot of anger ,sometimes when I go back in memory I regret it big time and the stupid reactions I did ,I can call my self a drama girl ,but even so humans make mistakes and that is not wrong the problem is we don't go so far and try to fix them we just ...

Warm Emotions

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It's the most famous word in the whole universe ,you just can't find someone in this world who doesn't know LOVE ,a variety of different feelings and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection,but I want to focus on two main words FEELINGS and ATTITUDES ,you see people express their love differently. First of all, most of us can't ditch the emotions and the ability to express what we truly feel,so it's always easy for us to tell the people we love what they mean to us, on the other hand some us can't really tell what's going on in their heart so they aim to hide what they feel so you can only see in in their attitudes towards us for example in some societies you don't hear the word I love you from your parents it is the way they were raised through generations but acts says it all ,for that love isn't about words its about both words and acts . Secondly , we can find  people who do not express their love through words this doesn't make ...

A little welcome

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Hey there I am chahineze 😁 ,this blog is dedicated to diversity and simplicity ,feel free to say what do you think and don't hesitate to share your ideas you are most welcome